Greetings Beloved of the Divine,
I hope your Monday and weekend had passed with joy, love and happiness. Should you have experienced a troublesome heart, I hope that you were surrounded by loving people and understanding to guide you through.
We experienced a bit of a scare in the house, Growler AKA Artimes had to be rushed to the vet yesterday, and yes she is a VERY big girl, but we never see her eat!!! Anyway, awaiting bloods to see what the matter could be… It will be a hard lesson for my little girl, but one I cannot shield her from, I can only with the help of my husband, listen to her and wipe her tears. But we are NOT there yet.
In a round-about way, it brings me back to our “lesson” for the day. And one I have touched on so many times before, but one that still leaves me with a mouth hanging open. HUMANS… and their inability to take responsibility for their own actions.
We all know them, we all try very hard to love them, we succeed and fail at the same time. What is it about us that cannot look inward and see who we are and what we have done, persistent in believing that someone else has “done” something to us, cursed us, put spells on us… blah, you name it.
Is it that if we stand still and say, I have done such and such, thus the universe is teaching me the lesson of so and so. It is quite simple, none of us want to be blamed for anything in life. With being accountable for our lives we must accept the blame that comes with it.
There is no entity on the planet that can cause you harm, unless you believe yourself that weak, and hand your personal power over towards them to manipulate. People, it does not mean that there are those that will inflict chaos in your life, to force your attention away form important things, it does happen. Once you realise what is happening, walk away. Fast, run if you must.
I for one believe in all Deities, entities on this planet, and some from other parallel universes, odd I am, I know, but loving it. See the Unicorn in the Kitchen, yes let us ride it for a while.
“When a child sits on a swing he moves up and down in an ever-increasing motion until he has swung as far forward and backward as possible. After experiencing this for as long as he needs to he slows down and comes back to a point of balance and stillness.
Our lifetimes are similar. We experience one aspect of life and then the opposite. The more we wish to explore one extreme the further from centre we swing. Then we must swing the other way to understand its opposite.
I know a woman who is at times a powerful, bullying, overbearing ogre. When she had pushed people away from herself far enough with attitude, she becomes the victim to draw them back in again. These are polar positions. When she balances these personalities, she will no longer try to control.
The person who is sometimes very generous and gives everything away, then becomes mean and withholding, is also swinging between polarities. Their task is to be centred about money.
Another common polarity swing is to be VERY ANGRY and CONTROLLING, then detached and aloof. These are opposites of CONTROL, the balance is to be open-hearted and even-tempered. By now I am sure you guessed where I fell… 😊
By the way binging and starving are opposite poles too. They are manifestation of feeling out of control and therefore trying to control whatever is possible.
Masculine energy is doing, thinking, logical, aggressive, while the feminine energy is creative, intuitive, passive…
Our aim is to balance these internally so that we can listen to our intuition AND act on it; we can have creative ideas and THINK them into fruition. We can REST and PLAY. We can nurture and protect.
If any of these qualities is out of balance, we are called on to re-centre ourselves and make new life choices.
We are always seeking balance. Maybe not consciously, but sub-conscious knows that the swing must be centred again. When we find it, the lesson is learnt. It is done for all time, never to be repeated.
Balancing aspect of your personality is like riding a bike. You fall off to one side or the other. Then you wobble. Eventually you learn, and you find the balance and ride smoothly.
Even if you haven’t been on a bike for years, you will be able to do so easily when you try next. Maybe a wobble or two, perhaps, but not the lurches you experienced when you first learnt.
This point of equilibrium is the balance which we seek in all things.
And look-see, nowhere did it say balance is found outward. For the last 18 months of my life, I have pro-actively delved into my own psyche. I came to a place of needing to understand the cycles I forced on myself all the time. It also meant letting go of many people I saw as ‘family”, good friends and some whose choices were not aligned with my core values.
It became imperative to seek internal peace, balance and calm. Storms have been raging, the world still happened every day. Things went belly up, challenges were created in Divine core. For a split second I felt like I must be cursed, but you know what, when I stood still for these months, and still counting, I have learned that I am the one person that can change the outcome of everything in my world. The choices are mine to make, albeit bad or good. The whip-lash from such choices my lesson to learn, and the ultimate goal, my internal balance.
There is no person in this world with the time, energy, nor desire to constantly “attack” you. YOU are the magnet for such lessons, and until you stand still to have the knowledge turn to wisdom, you will believe that others are the culprit.
Blessed excavation of the authentic balance and polarities within you.
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