Now could be the time to walk away; hell, you may even need to run. Haven’t you been listening to your inner-voice? Be honest, your gut has been screaming but you have been ignoring it. How much more of your life are you going to throw-away for a lie? Accept it. Some people never change. Some people have abusive, negative, controlling tendencies in their blood; they are wired for havoc, bickering and deception.
They know of no other way to interface with others except through their created chaos. Chaos is their home-court advantage where they play their mind-games so they can have power over you; it’s a rigged game you can never win. They will wear you ragged and bring you to your knees emotionally and physically. In time they will destroy every wonderful thing you have in your life.
You are in danger: your health, your peace of mind, your happiness and maybe even your life. There is more than one way to lose your life; quickly through violence, or fettered-away and wasted around dreadful, toxic people. You must take control of your life and make good decisions for yourself. The insanity must end, for your sake and for theirs.
I am always so blessed to receive a reminder, and or a blunt in your face message, making me think…yes.
Personally, I love talking directly to only a handful of people… literally a handful, I can count them for you if you want – however, here we do not use names. These people I have found, truly are what one call “the salt of the earth”. They are there for you, carry you when you are weak, bruised and battered, and will defend you fiercely.
The message above I received over 4 years ago, now LOTS has happened in the time mentioned. This morning I had a wonderful conversation, with one of said hand-full people. In all honesty, I am proud of my response towards a comment – as within each “bad-choice” (no such thing), I have realised, how much I have evolved, grown and become so much more aware of how I see the world around me.
Today, I am proud of ME. Even more than yesterday, and as the day goes on, I am sure to magnify this feeling… said choices has granted me the opportunity to work on myself, better myself, and look into the mirror held up by another, and find more of me..
I hope in your own world, that everyday you are granted the opportunities to become a better version of yourself.